The Minute Man



I know you're wondering where I'm going to start....I'm wondering too. To the women reading this boy do I know you have enough thoughts running through your head just based off the title. That's fine and dandy and that's exactly what I want. To the fellas reading this I'm just wondering if you ever seen things my way. I'm going to go out on a limb and assume all of us have had the "minute man" experience. A guy cums quick and _____ may ensue after. Depending on who you are you fill in that blank. As a guy you probably been through this enough through the years probably less as you got older. For the women this issue is a disappointment to say the least for the most part.

I'm not here to stick up for anyone who cums quick or nothing like that. I'm just here to bring to light an observation for the fellas. Now I often believe women cannot imagine what it could possibly feel like being inside of them. The whole sexual act is based on you (the guy) being able to have stamina and what not. That's not a problem, but some women become very upset if a guy doesn't last long. Please don't get me wrong I always say if you have the time and you like her you got to give her round two and I stand by that. But to the ladies who get highly agitated I have something for you to think about.

Guys, you ever make a woman cum a lot faster than she may have before? Think about it and then try and remember her reaction. My experience is "Oh my gosh that's never happened so fast before." It's either that statement or something to that affect. My point is they're usually shocked....just as they are in disbelief if you may cum quick. In my thought I just figured maybe women just can't relate to this issue well because it's not something they can really relate to themselves. To quote the big lady in Coming To America "A man has to put in over time to get me off!" That line cracks me up every time, and it's an exaggerated scenario but many women require much more attention so they're boggled by the fact that a guy could be finished so fast.

A lot goes into this for you guys like your diet, rest, stress levels, and your chemistry with the person whom you're dealing with but that's a whole other story. I just wanted to know if you all think I make sense at all, I thought it was an aight hypothesis. To the ladies do you agree somewhat? Just something i was toying with in my head, I'm not asking for a whole bunch of mercy on guys you may see, but next time think from this point of view maybe.

Comments

  1. CarrymelJune 23, 2011 at 6:18 PM

    "To quote the big lady in Coming To America "A man has to put in over time to get me off!"

    That cracked me up!

    So in reference to this post. . while I obviously wouldn't prefer to have minute long sex, I think making a guy feel bad about it isn't going to solve anything. He's probably already mad at himself, you know? There's a lady-like way to voice your displeasure and like you said - there's always round two.

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  2. AnonymousJune 24, 2011 at 1:59 PM

    OH.EM.GEE.ZEE! I can't even explain to you how many times I have heard this convo in the past months...LMBO crazy! But it's nice to have a male point of view on this subject...good stuff!

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  3. SheaJuly 13, 2011 at 3:12 PM

    Lol, this has only happened a couple times to me, I actually wasn't upset at all. To be honest shit happens, what can you do. Getting all crazy and overreacting doesn't make the situation any better. But if the guy doesn't come back strong for round two that's lame! lol.

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  4. DamnpopsJuly 15, 2011 at 5:36 PM

    lol!! you're def one of the lucky ones mama

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