All Natural

If you're a regular reader, or if you know me then you know I'm a huge advocate for patience. They say that patience is a virtue, and I think that's nothing but the truth. With patience comes way more understanding, and allows things to happen the way they probably should. I think it's important with anything that things flow naturally, especially in relationships.

When things flow naturally it gives you a chance to find the kinks and potentially iron them out. If you've even noticed in your own life, when you force something, it just doesn't work. It's not a natural progression. You get the best feelings and the most out of each other when things happen organically. To use a pretty loose analogy: At Starbucks you can have a Frapuccino made for you, it takes some time but you can have it made. In other locations, bottled Frapuccinos are sold. I've asked many people which Frapuccino they've enjoyed more, and I always get the response that they enjoyed the freshly made one more. The freshly made "Frap" takes a little more time. But it took time to put in the ingredients in order to make it that enjoyable. Now when you don't have that time or luxury to wait, you'd probably go buy the pre-made one, and it might be good, but nowhere as good as the "Frap" that you had to wait for.

Very loose analogy but my point is when thing flow naturally it's way more enjoyable, and when things are forced, more times than not someone may feel pushed away. The last thing you want to do is push someone away. Some of the best romances are the ones that develop. You may meet each other with no intention of talking, and it just becomes this progression into this cool little situation you end up having going on. The last thing you want to feel in any situation is pressure, so try to avoid it. I promise you if you give things time to develop and let things happen naturally you'll enjoy the feeling of joy with no catalyst. The feeling of joy just like your relationship will be .......all natural.