Trains of Thought

If you have learned nothing else from different things I have written on my blog, you have definitely learned that men and women are different. We will always be different, and the art of handling our differences s is what sets the single from the "cuffed."

Commitment will always be the name of the game, commitment or lack thereof. It's either people wanting to be committed or people not wanting to be. People who want to be committed don't usually have many reasons to be committed they just usually like the sense of security and the whole vibe of being in a relationship. It is a beautiful thing being with someone you can make it work with. You will find that the people who don't want to be in relationships or aren't in one have way more reasons not to be in one. They are either hurt and recovering, don't want to be bothered, or haven't found the right person. I think everyone can commit it's just a matter of the right mix of people. It does take time to realize who these people are and if being together really makes sense.

Men and women generally speaking, see the idea of commitment a whole lot differently. We men are way more laid about life in general; my opinion at least. I'm only speaking in terms of our social lives. In past blogs you have read that society and our own upbringings have shaped us in different ways. Men are raised to relax and play the field but women are taught a whole lot differently. Women know that they don't have forever like men do. Women have what we in society or even in science call "biological clocks." Now don't think that i think they are looking to get married now at this moment between ages of 17 and 23 but they are figuring things out.

These women want something stable in order to bring a child into a stable situation, and I think anyone can respect that. But women are weeding us out, they want a good idea of what they need their man to be like by the time they really are ready. Make no mistake about it, this is a little monkey on their back that is not on a man's. I think this in one shape or another has created dissension amongst this new society of laissez faire relations.

Men and women have two totally different philosophies on life, and we're on this constant give and take type of deal as we're both trying to accomplish different things. It pays a lot to be on the same page. You'll find that women more frequently think about marriages and the future in general more than men. The wedding shows with David aint helping either. With all these elements we are left with one solution. We all have to adapt to different people , we have to be more understanding and we all have to be more patient with one another. We can be doomed from the jump at times simply because our minds are in totally different places, and it's been conditioned that way. We're all on just different trains of thought.