The Lap of Luxury

Are your dreams like mine? Are your dreams pretty much like many others? You know the whole idea of financial security and the complete nuclear family. Having a loving relationship, obedient children, and a career you love. It sounds lovely and I happen to believe it's highly attainable. Of course these things will not fall in your lap, you got to bust your ass for it and even that's easier said than done.

More times than not you're going to really have to go through it to reap these benefits. They say you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to get to your Prince....what the fellas got to do to get to their queen lol? No but really to kind of continue a past post i wrote entitled "Teach Me A Lesson," You have to take your different relationships for what they were. I think sometimes your whole philosophy on relationships have to change. We have to appreciate our lessons, whether they were in our favor or not. In my mind to learn these lessons is a privilege. We don't "need" to be with anyone, so when you do decide to settle down make sure you understand that a relationship is a luxury.

Whenever you lose something luxurious you do miss it. A luxury adds something to you; it's a compliment to you. We should all be compliments to each other, but we must individually be complete. There are no "we complete each others." You have to be whole, and you really have to be in love with you before you truly can enjoy the perks of a relationship. Everyone doesn't have luxury and that's why it's special. We all don't have diamonds or penthouses...why not? We're simply not in those positions as yet, but we hope to get ourselves into that prime position. So with that, you know that you have to get your self in a prime position to be an owner of a luxury as a successful relationship. It won't always work out but eventually if you are dead sure about yourself, you become dead sure about what YOU want. You take these steps and sooner or later you too can live in the lap of luxury.