Consistency

It's human nature for us to become complacent. We all get comfortable at some point. The perfect analogy is a Christmas give you had been wanting oh so bad for the longest...and you finally get it!! Now I can speak for myself when i say as soon as batteries died it seemed like forever till new batteries were bought, and after that initial joy it just seemed different. I got used to the toy, the uncertainty of me having this toy added to it's allure, and it's the same when dealing with each other.

We can't lose our passions and motives. People often say they enjoy the chase, and I agree that the chase sometimes presents a good challenge but there are certain things in life you can't afford to lose. That lust for life we have as youngsters can never be lost if we wish to progress, and if you want things to stay the same in your relationships you can't lose what got you to that point.

They say "You dance with who brought you," meaning that you have to continue being the person you always were. don't stop the dates or don't stop the communication. Time progresses and sometimes you can't devote as much time to these things and I can dig that, but you have to still hold on to those things; its the very foundation of what got you all to where you were. You can't lose the random excitements; the spontaneity if any is involved. Paying attention to detail and remaining consistent will give your man/woman a whole lot less to complain about, and it makes life a lot easier for all of us. please heed my words and be well.