The Gift of Gab

They say sometimes that you lose all your credibility once you open your mouth. They also say that if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all. I agree with both in the appropriate cases. But I always follow the ideas of it's not what you do/say but how you do/say it. This also depends on who's saying it.

I strongly believe beyond looks, to really get to know a lady you got to be able to peel away at her. You peel an orange you get to what's sweet, you get to what you really want. Obviously a little work goes into getting to that point. My point is that speaking to people is surely an art. The guys that don't know how to approach or communicate with a woman like the human being she is probably won't see much success. Generally speaking, women look to be comfortable. Your rhetoric and how you deliver it is imperative.

I'm not saying everyone is smooth or anything. But there has to be a level of charm involved. A bit of cleverness and creativity goes a long way. Also understand who you are. Don't say things out of your character, she'll know if you being natural or not. Trying too hard is simply not cool.

The gift of gab is something everyone doesn't have. I think it comes from a comfort with people and a natural charisma. I think it's to any guy's benefit to become more comfortable just talking to women respectfully, and know there's more to them than what meets the eye.

A woman can sense you being genuine. It's always important to be original in what you say and be more aware of the tired shit other fellas say. They respect originality which is why you should always be yourself. When ever you do that great things happen.