Don't Use A Crutch


We all wonder. We all make assumptions. Assumptions are non factual premonitions. All ladies are familiar with the term "Female's Intuition." Basically it's an innate feature ladies have, or that they believe is innate. Basically the intuition states that women have certain feelings or assumptions, almost like a sixth sense. These "intuitions" occur I want to say most times involving a significant other, or an interest. Sometimes there may be reasons given for the assumptions, and sometimes there isn't. Regardless of either it's still an assumption till it's brought forth.

Now for women to believe in this "intuition" it's my belief that it should have a high success rate. Being that you put yourself out there as a woman I think you need to make sure facts are straight. Problem... many times facts aren't straight. Action is taken based on "intuition." Why should these "intuitions" be trusted?

Are "intuitions" really just that if they actually are proven to be wrong? I know intuition doesn't always mean FACT, but women often use this term as a crutch. A cheap excuse or reason to stick noses or ask questions that's not appropriate. Intuition has high price ladies. Be real with yourselves. This "intuition" you speak of is either primarily or secondarily brought on by insecurity. In your best situations women will still think in the back of their mind of what could go wrong. That thought itself I think is mistakenly defined as "intuition." What is a woman's intuition when proven guilty? It's false, no other way around it. Your "intuition" will not always lead you to success, and when it doesn't how could you possibly make up for it?

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