Discretion Is Advised
The phrase "less is more" sometimes can be a great thing in relationships. The reality being that things will not always be good. When things are too good I think you can expect something to go wrong unfortunately.
I say that to say this, when things do go wrong I think it's important to handle things in a grown way. We're getting too old for hearsay. Point being, with all these new social outlets, people love to "vent" their frustrations on them. To me its extremely tacky. I tend to be a very covert kind of guy. My thinking is when it comes to any issue with someone else to keep that situation intimate. Inquiring minds always want to know but it's honestly not their business.
I now begin to find it challenging to write about different issues without being too redundant. This issue of discretion is really brought about by me growing and just understanding how to deal with frustration, or disappointment. Your best chance of making something better is to tend to the primary source of the problem. Being discrete is an art. We get caught up in a society in which news runs rampant, and people are constantly inquisitive. To be discrete is to not succumb to those pressures and put limits on your own life, what you say and what you do. The more business kept to yourself, the more respect and trust you'll earn. Conversely the more you're compelled to talk or be apart of something the less trust and respect you'll receive. The most respected people in this world are the most trusted.
Do you want to be respected?
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