The Rollercoaster of Love Part 2- Cruising

So now we hit the stable phase, the cruising phase. Now you all are comfortable with each other. You have a good grasp on each others likes and dislikes. This doesn't mean the spontaneity and the romance stops. Quite the contrary this is the time where you want to put more effort into keeping things stable. Everything in life we have of importance we take care of, whether it be a car, a baby, or ourselves. None of the aforementioned things are perfect yet they all need care and attention. As do our own relationships as they are not perfect. We don't live in a utopia, and as much as we soak in this happiness we feel, you still have to be smart and not delusional. Of course when you're in the beginning stages of love, being delusional is almost synonymous lol. But it's okay, we've all been there. But as you're in this cruising phase trouble sometimes will occur. A feeling of consolation may sometime occur, because this is when you realize you love the person. You get into a disagreement,fight, whatever you want to call it, but you realize the people who matter the most to you are the people you are willing to work through things with. It's also a good gauge to see if your feeling would be reciprocated in the more darker times. It is often said in times of adversity is when you see a person's character, and it is at these times is relationships where you can also find out someone's true motives, what do they want out of the situation. As much as you're cruising in this time, you still are feeling this person out consantly...they may not know it. Love presents a sense of comfort but maybe sometimes a constant feeling is discomfort. Always wondering how the siginificnt other feels, are they happy, and I pleasing them? Is there someone else is a big one,lol. All of this is warranted, at the end of the day you all probably haven't known ech other long and there will always be some unanswered questions, but how willing is your partner to communicate clearly. These insecurities play a big role during this time, which sometimes leads to the demise of this phase. And naturally the next phase begins with your once great communication, going south. Now there's two options you land smoothly.....or you all crash.....stay tuned.