The Rollercoaster of Love Part 1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-lbIfaqm0U

Whether you've been in love or not it's a known fact that your emotions are constantly fluctuating. The thought that we can actually think of someone so frequently is kinda scary lol. But in any event I feel that love has phases, just as anything in life there is a process. I have never really been one to think you can truly love someone at first sight. I think there are strong initial attractions, great chemistry, common grounds, but no feeling that deep worthy of the title of love. Love in a lot of cases stems from places you'd least expect it. In my experience and I think in everyone's you just don't see that coming. I used to have an away message that read "love is a battle, love is a war, love is a growing up." The series of phases love produces gives you so many experiences, and they're all not at all great. In life you take the good with the bad as growth demands change. And that's how you should approach life after heartbreak if any. The next stage of your life should be knowing the do's and don'ts and not making that same mistake twice. But back to the story, I think you gain a real feel for a person when you get to spend one on one alone time with them, not messing around or anything,lol but really talking to them. you test out your chemistry, you see the little things, the eye contact, or even that happy feeling when you see they're the one that's calling your phone(stop frontin)lol. I think this is love in it's embriotic stage. This is the stage where you digging this person, and you tell them...but you just don't tell them how much. This phase is fun, it's new, it's spontaneous. A new fresh situation is always great, with no expectations. For me I thought something ws different when I really became interested in the person, I had never met someone who actually had something different to say, with tht extroverted personality. I think the people you usually fall for are the people that come with something different from what you've had. They get your attention, and you just want to learn more. Then you realize how whack the people before were in some cases,lol. But in it's infancy love is happy, it's everything you see in the movies. but every plane takes off smoothly,but how often do you get a smooth flight. Part 2- We tlk about turbulence, and how we navigate through it.