Men vs Women....where i think we win somewhere,lol


There's a certain issue I have been monitoring in my mind over the past few years. I see it becoming more prevalent as the years go along. In it's simplest form it's simply why so many women don't get along with each other and why so many guys do. In many of my relationships with women in talking to them one of the first things they usually say is "i don't have a lot of female friends," or "i can't stand women." So on and so forth,lol I want to get to the nature of all this because I find that guys don't like each other if you give us a reason to not like the other person. I've literally been with a girl in the street and that girl judged someone before they opened their mouth and said they didn't like them. Why is it that women have this attitude? is it based off of their past experiences with girlfriends or is it purely ignorance? You can't just go through life feeling negative about so much... unless you want to.... but why would you right? I think more women need to be more respectful from the jump personally, i think so much stems just from an initial look or greeting. What do you all think about this, what's your ideas?

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  1. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2009 at 6:53 PM

    idk, i think girls are just really competitive, and always have to have a reason why they're better than another girl. they feel like they have to compete to be the prettiest, most popular, etc, and so they feel like they have to trash the others around them, to make themselves looks better. Although, it really doesn't make them look better. Also, for some reason, i think us girls just search for drama, for some reason, wheareas guys try to completely avoid it. You're right though, we need to all learn to just get along, and not judge, because most of the time when you judge someone, you're wrong.

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 5, 2009 at 5:56 PM

    i think its basically a woman's past experience that make women not get along. before high school i had a whole lot of girl friends before the fact that i was put into an all girl's school. after high school i ended up not trust girls because i been w. hundreds of them for four yrs. i mean i have a few girlfriends but i learned that the ones closest to me are the true ones. another reason can be that women are very envious of one another. i usually see another woman and say i hate them because they have something that i dont. at the same time, another woman can look at me and say the same thing. women are weird kahlil!!!! lolol

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  3. GracieMay 20, 2009 at 3:45 PM

    most men are more like dogs, they sniff eachother's asses and strole off together, they fight mark their territories and keep their distance lol, and most females are like mama lions, grr, fuck off ma property and i'll leave you be... but na, me personally i don't judge females from the get, girls are just so dramatic and bitchy, even i am, but with a guy friend the mutual respect will always be there because they know there's a boundary that they can't croww, not all girls know that and thats why most of us choose to chill wit dudes rather than girls

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  4. GracieMay 20, 2009 at 3:46 PM

    cross*

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