Why The Mood Is Everything.
Intimacy can come about from a variety of situations. Different circumstances shape our everyday activities. In order for a successful moment or period of intimacy, there are a few factors left to consider. Some of these I will Divulge now :
1. Watch what you say. Too many times you can simply say something dumb, and ha panties go right back up. make sure you speak in the context of the moment. If you are genuinely funny then you should know the rigt jokes to make, that are tailored to your personality. but the most fuck ups occur from simply someone sayin some shit to kill the mood.
2. In order to keep the mood intimate, and special, you gotta keep it sexy. As a guy you gotta be smooth and patient. you being reluctant will mess up your flow, and she will sense it. be smooth but assertive, show a lady that you are a man and you know how to handle your situation.
3. To enhance your mood, besides lighting and othe areas of the environment, you wanna have the right type of music. The right playlist can set any mood up. these songs may have a lady doing things she didn't exactly plan on doing in the first place. the music is a catalyst, it's still your duty, to bring your intensity and enthusiasm to the situation or else the music won't mean a thing.
4. Make your lady comfortable, she should feel safe with you at that moment... well always. be assertive,let ya actions show you're in tune with her and that you're looking out for her to be satisfied. if done well...this shall be reciprocated.
5. Have fun, having fun could never kill the mood, you gotta know your limits, and it should be fine once you're well aware of each other's personalities, you'll have a good idea of what's gonna make the other person happy.
kudos to adwoa with the whole playlist thing... we gotta thing for playlists...music is tough,lol
feel free to add if you see the need......
1. Watch what you say. Too many times you can simply say something dumb, and ha panties go right back up. make sure you speak in the context of the moment. If you are genuinely funny then you should know the rigt jokes to make, that are tailored to your personality. but the most fuck ups occur from simply someone sayin some shit to kill the mood.
2. In order to keep the mood intimate, and special, you gotta keep it sexy. As a guy you gotta be smooth and patient. you being reluctant will mess up your flow, and she will sense it. be smooth but assertive, show a lady that you are a man and you know how to handle your situation.
3. To enhance your mood, besides lighting and othe areas of the environment, you wanna have the right type of music. The right playlist can set any mood up. these songs may have a lady doing things she didn't exactly plan on doing in the first place. the music is a catalyst, it's still your duty, to bring your intensity and enthusiasm to the situation or else the music won't mean a thing.
4. Make your lady comfortable, she should feel safe with you at that moment... well always. be assertive,let ya actions show you're in tune with her and that you're looking out for her to be satisfied. if done well...this shall be reciprocated.
5. Have fun, having fun could never kill the mood, you gotta know your limits, and it should be fine once you're well aware of each other's personalities, you'll have a good idea of what's gonna make the other person happy.
kudos to adwoa with the whole playlist thing... we gotta thing for playlists...music is tough,lol
feel free to add if you see the need......
I have to add. DO NOT MOVE TOO FAST!! just cuz ur horny doesnt mean that the female feels the same and any quick movement could result in an instant turn off... && yeah lol playlists are the shit kahlil =)
ReplyDeleteomg i sooooo agree with number 2. if i guy seems like he doesnt know what he's doing its a major turnoff!
ReplyDeleteand i agree with adwoa as well